I read a wide variety and the ones listed to your right are ones where I feel like the blogger has a very healthy attitude toward their sexuality/relationships/life. I believe that couples can swing, people can have poly relationships, individuals can be way kinkier than I am, and have a sane stable life too.
And then there are the others that I can't help but wince and continue reading for the trainswreck/thank god it itsn't me factor. They're not listed.
Most swinger blogs are OK but often if you dig back far enough you find an event that triggered it. Usually some sort of infidelity...much angst...and the idea that maybe they should explore others together. There's a honeymoon period where they "have the best communication ever" "best sex ever" and then someone, usually the woman, starts hating it. I'm not sure how much of that is social conditioning (It's important to be a 'good girl') or that the woman just wasn't into it in the first place. If kids are involved there's all sorts of issues (people in the house? pictures online?) that are really appropriate considerations for anyone who is interested in doing other things.
Adultery blogs have taught me lots of lessons. Guys who cheat because they don't get enough at home almost never leave. They really love their wives but just want some extra release. One blog I read the guy has had another woman on the side for a couple of years and still calls her a fuck buddy. Women? They leave. And most of the time its not for another guy, its to find themselves in some way and the sex was just an expression of it.
While I like sexy stories, in typical girly fashion I like the stories behind them. I like learning about the people and watching the interaction between their personalities and their sex lives. And I want to write about that here...me and what I like to think/do/learn about sexually.
3 years ago
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OMG,
I must be a girl too, as I also like the stories behind the story.
My wife can't understand why I like reading many of the blogs I check in on, but sometimes you just want to know what someone was thinking. Even the trainwreck ones can be compelling to read. (but isn't it interesting you can usually tell which ones are going to be the wreck.)
And your a redhead too.....
sigh,....
I'm in love..
Oh, and make sure you get that link to the video you and the hubby where watching
The hottie URL
http://www.youporn.com/watch/244842/cherry-poppins-pt-2/
and the sequel
http://www.youporn.com/watch/244842/cherry-poppins-pt-2/
there is a whole series of them. I LOVE her body. The private dance I got from a stripper in June was like hers...fair skin and beautifully padded. The little ginger snatch? I get hot just thinking about it. What I also liked was that the guy was really HARD!
But she doesn't seem to be too into it.
Trainwrecks...WE can see them and my DH doesn't seem to understand why I care at all. It really gets me when kids are involved. I don't mean the parents involve them in their sex lives in anyway but just that the lack of self honesty can damage the stable home.
I think I made my position clear on one potential trainwreck ...the one you found me at.
I really should write a post about my marriage with its ups and downs and when is it really OK to consider outside parties.
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